| I don't think your point of view is the minority: what saddens me is that people would stop doing something that they love because of it. I don't really understand why the men who really were bothered couldn't just say they didn't want to dance/needed a drink/whatever at the end of the class at the point of going into freestyle. Actually this particular individual wasn't asking other guys to dance as far as I'm aware, s/he was waiting to be asked. In which case it's entirely up to the other people at the venue whether or not they as him/her to dance, and his/her presence shouldn't really be an issue |