I wanted to vote on this topic but I'm afraid I could not agree with any of the available options. How about adding a 5th option:
"I cannot do them. dislike them & do not ever want to learn them"?
Sorry to those of you guys who like such choreographed moves!!!
And I know of many women who agree with me on this issue - then again, it might just be a London/South thing. Many of the experienced women dancers here do not go to classes but just turn up for the freestyle. Hence they are unlikely to have learnt choreographed moves and accordingly will not be able to execute (as opposed to follow) such moves when signalled by their partners. Hence the importance of GOOD leading from the men ....... (sorry, here I go again
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LilyB