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Originally Posted by LMC Although as jivecat says, if you are *both* enjoying dancing together and it is just the dancing then have as many in a row as you like  |
Agree. Though I would probably still have two dances in a row then dance again later with the same person, rather than all at once. Esp if they are a lovely dancer and there are women sitting out, I wouldn't want to be greedy.
I was thinking about this subject this morning while getting ready for work. (As you do.
) Another reason I might 'hold back' a little is if the guy isn't that used to blues room dancing. Some guys think blues = pull the lady in close and wiggle a bit because that's what they see other people doing. There are always some guys who end up in the blues room later on after the main room has closed who are rather out of their depth. I will dance with them, and even play a bit if they seem OK with that, but there were a few times on Sun night when I
really wanted to 'strut my stuff' and it was so difficult toning it down. My reason for toning it down was so that I wasn't giving them the wrong signals. (An experienced blues room dancer would be totally different.)
So while yes, its 'just' dancing, and yes, the guy shouldn't expect more than a dance, IMO the woman still has some responsibility about what she is communicating through her dancing.