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Old 10th-March-2006, 06:04 PM   #19 (permalink)
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Re: Advice needed please!

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Originally Posted by Lynn
Esp if they are a lovely dancer and there are women sitting out, I wouldn't want to be greedy.
Naturally, neither would I. But if I was really enjoying myself, and he was willing.......it's every woman for herself! I figure that I do plenty of sitting out at other times!
You're just so nice, Lynn.

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So while yes, its 'just' dancing, and yes, the guy shouldn't expect more than a dance, IMO the woman still has some responsibility about what she is communicating through her dancing.
I can think of very few times when the way I was dancing, or indeed just dancing, was clearly interpreted as any sort of come-on. Usually with the sort of guy who has a mental list of "possibles" and is running through them until he gets a strike. Like Frankie_4711 found, they rapidly move on to the next in the list when they can see there's not going to be a result.
What about guys who initiate serial groin-grinds with me - do they not have responsibility for what they lead? Shame it's no longer possible to file "Breach of Promise" suits.
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