Would love to do a weekender every month, but it takes the other 3 weeks in the month to recover from the lack of sleep!
Realistically i can get away with doing about 4 per year.
I think the most important factor for me is having lots of friends there. I love the social side of the weekenders and rarely do any workshops. The freestyle and amount of men to choose from is the main reason for me going on a weekender. Therefore Gendar balance is important.
So my 6 are:
Friends
As much freestyle as possible (24hours a day would be good

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Gendar balance
Good floors
Blues/chillout room
Good DJ's
