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Originally posted by Forte
... I also hate guys who trail their hand under my boobs instead of my waist...on a move round ; they can pretend that their hand is just accidentally high all they like but one of these days I am going to bop one of them! |
DON'T PUT UP WITH IT !!!!!!!!!
NOT EVEN ONCE.
If they apologise after a
genuinely inadvertant touch, fair enough. It happens occasionally. There was an occasion not that long ago I was dancing to a fast track with someone and got my timing completely wrong, and copped a handful ... gulp
... but I was mortified, knew immediately what I'd done and apologised profusely. The lady knew it was completely unintentional, and all was well. She even told me to stop apologising....
The point is ladies, you know the difference between something accidental, and a groper. Bopping the gropers is too damn good for them - at least tell them there and then that they're out of order, and walk off the dancefloor. And then tell the other ladies.
You wouldn't put up with it on the street - just because jive is a partner dance gives people no more right to behave inappropriately.
Sorry for the rant, this one sends me ballistic.
Chris