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Originally posted by Jon L
OK - it's name and shame for unacceptable types of behaviour.
Last night at St. Mary's it was the reunion for the holiday that Lynn was on. FYI she met both Will, myself and one or two others.
Anyway one of the young ladies decided she would come to see us, and try the beginners class... Something however really put her off and made her run a mile was an unkind remark by one of the men...under no circumstances should we as experienced dancers be rude or sarcastic to newcomers, especially during beginners classes 
A reminder to us all that we were beginners ourselves once! |
Yeah, I was there on Friday night and had a great time!
I agree if people are more experienced dancers and are doing the beginners class they should be aware that it could be someone's first or second class and make any comments sensitively. Someone did offer a style comment to me in that class, but did so politely and I felt they were just trying to help me improve and appreciated it. Its great when people are willing to help beginners and some positive comments go a long to helping someone's enjoyment and confidence (and encouraging them to come back).
I really enjoyed the class (and also my first intermediate class, which was challenging and fun). I think anyone who really loves the dancing itself, will also love to see others enjoy it - and seeing someone after their first class, realising they have 'got it' is great. As a beginner myself, I appreciate an experienced dancer asking me to dance, offering helpful comments and generally making the dance enjoyable - which I am glad to say was my experience with all the dances on Friday night!
