| I guess it's different for everyone, but being relaxed is a big factor. If you're still at the stage of frequently having to say "I'm sorry", then it's unlikely you're relaxed enough. Since you've posted this here I assume you haven't been dancing very long, in which case don't worry: it gets easier with practice, and once you don't really have to think too hard about moves etc you'll find you're able to relax more, and also to think about other things, such as how gorgeous your partner is, how this is the best dance of the evening, etc. |