Thread: First Move
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Old 2nd-October-2004, 10:46 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Re: First Move

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Originally Posted by MartinHarper
It seems like there's a real difference in philosophy between David's advice to avoid "excess leading", and Graham's advice not to "allow too much freedom". I wonder - which approach do the ladies prefer?
I don't really think that there is too much difference in the two - if led and followed properly, there is no "excess leading"; a constant light connection is maintained through tension and compression. If the lady descides to start rotating early, she will fee a stronger resisance to start with (because the man has not started to lead it yet). If the man is being forcefull and providing a strong lead, then the resistance would be greater and the lady would really notice that something was not right.

Personally, I provide that little bit of resistance {ie reaction time}, then go with the flow - anything else in my opinion raises the risk of injury and is completley unnescissary: If I wanted to do something specific that the lady's actions prevented me from doing, I would find a way to lead it clearer next time (eg takeing two or three beats while walking backards to get to the same position as count 1.)
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