If the lady is beside you get your hand on the lady's hip bone and try to mirror it's movements with your hip.
Keep your upper body really calm, feet close together, knees bent. Imagine you're working behind a bar and secretly dancing with the lower half of your body only.
Practice, practice, practice. You are not alone. Loads of men have spent months working on their wiggle. Next time you're down the pub , checkout the bottom half of the bar man.
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