Neck holds etc.

**David Bailey** · 16th-August-2005, 02:34 PM

OK, maybe I'm the only person who does these, but it seems unlikely.

These are when I (as the lead) put my hand on the back of the lady's neck, ether in preparation for a move, or frankly because it looks and feels good, or is, ahem, preparation for hair-pulling or forehead-touching types of move.

So, anybody else use these, or is it just me?

**Donna** · 16th-August-2005, 03:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

OK, maybe I'm the only person who does these, but it seems unlikely.

These are when I (as the lead) put my hand on the back of the lady's neck, ether in preparation for a move, or frankly because it looks and feels good, or is, ahem, preparation for hair-pulling or forehead-touching types of move.

So, anybody else use these, or is it just me?

As promised you DID start this thread off after all. Have a good sunbathe did ya?

Anyway, the only sort of neck hold move I have come across is when lady has her back facing the man, he then places his hand on the back of the ladies neck, she spreads her arms out to the sides, man takes a step back and drops her. It takes a reasonable amount of trust to allow him to do this though.

Andreas · 16th-August-2005, 03:32 PM

I hold the ladies by the neck when either doing one of the dozens of Neck drop variations or for e.g. the Bow. Hair pulling is nothing I have used so far, though, why do you put your hand at her neck? Can't you just grab the hair and pull violently?

**El Salsero Gringo** · 16th-August-2005, 03:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andreas

I hold the ladies by the neck when either doing one of the dozens of Neck drop variations or for e.g. the Bow. Hair pulling is nothing I have used so far, though, why do you put your hand at her neck? Can't you just grab the hair and pull violently?

Because you need to slide your fingers into her hair to pull gently at the roots. If you tug violently on the ends you'll get (and deserve) a slap.

**Cruella** · 16th-August-2005, 03:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Salsero Gringo

Because you need to slide your fingers into her hair to pull gently at the roots. If you tug violently on the ends you'll get (and deserve) a slap.

And you do it very well ESG.

Andreas · 16th-August-2005, 03:55 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Salsero Gringo

Because you need to slide your fingers into her hair to pull gently at the roots. If you tug violently on the ends you'll get (and deserve) a slap.

Yeah, but that could be result of pure pleasure

**Donna** · 16th-August-2005, 03:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Andreas

I hold the ladies by the neck when either doing one of the dozens of Neck drop variations or for e.g. the Bow. Hair pulling is nothing I have used so far, though, why do you put your hand at her neck? Can't you just grab the hair and pull violently?

I really do hope that when and if you do that she is going to be wearing a wig!!!!

Mary · 16th-August-2005, 04:01 PM

I've never had my hair pulled (well, not when dancing)

But I guess it's not that easy when your hair is already tied back.

M

**David Bailey** · 16th-August-2005, 04:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donna

As promised you DID start this thread off after all. Have a good sunbathe did ya?

Yep, lovely, lots of good gossip about Certain Forumites, and a potential new Forumette recruit. Good day's work, basically.

Quote:

Originally Posted by El Salsero Gringo

Because you need to slide your fingers into her hair to pull gently at the roots. If you tug violently on the ends you'll get (and deserve) a slap.

Ah - is that why you've currently got even less hair than me, to avoid this sort of violence?

Anyway, there's lots of neck-hold moves; e.g. the lady-duck-under thingy (I'm so crap at move names), but I was thinking of this hold more as a UCP thing.

For example, in a walkaround, holding the neck instead of the hand / side. I just think it looks a bit cooler in a way...

**Donna** · 16th-August-2005, 04:42 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mary

I've never had my hair pulled (well, not when dancing)

But I guess it's not that easy when your hair is already tied back.

M

Good reason to keep your hair tied back then!!

**Donna** · 16th-August-2005, 04:45 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

lots of good gossip about Certain Forumites, and a potential new Forumette recruit.

Oh yeah?

Which one's in particular? Who's the new one?

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

Anyway, there's lots of neck-hold moves; e.g. the lady-duck-under thingy (I'm so crap at move names), but I was thinking of this hold more as a UCP thing.

Thinl I know which one you mean. Damn I can't think of the name either.

**David Bailey** · 16th-August-2005, 04:54 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donna

Oh yeah?

Which one's in particular? Who's the new one?

Yeah, right - I'll just spill all the gossip on a public forum, shall I...

**Donna** · 16th-August-2005, 04:56 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

Yeah, right - I'll just spill all the gossip on a public forum, shall I...

Come on then.

**David Bailey** · 16th-August-2005, 06:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Donna

Come on then.

Wibble.

JoC · 16th-August-2005, 08:04 PM

You started without me!!! It's all too much, cold shower required right away before I've even read the posts properly about stroking of necks, pulling of hair, UCP neck touching.....faint

As well as the little neck massage I received 'recently', I also experienced that move where the man sort of moves his hand round your neck (or is it head?

) with the aim, I think, of making you sort of move your head round in dramatic, and perhaps passionate fashion, does anyone know what I'm on about? If anyone out there happens to be the gentleman who lead this 'recently' also, it was my first time, and you probably found my neck a little tense (and I didn't do a very good job of being either dramatic or passionate)!

Therefore I require more massage please.

JoC · 16th-August-2005, 08:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

forehead-touching types of move

and I've only just spotted this, please tell, sounds a bit dodgy if it's a particularly warm evening...

Alykat · 16th-August-2005, 09:07 PM

Spice n' Easy does a interesting neck hold variation...

**David Bailey** · 17th-August-2005, 12:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JoC

and I've only just spotted this, please tell, sounds a bit dodgy if it's a particularly warm evening...

OK, I know it sounds weird, but it's really quite effective.

1. Start looking into partners eyes
2. Move closer
3. Hand on back of her head / neck
4. Look more intensely
5. Do a DavidSeducer move, forehead-to-forehead.

Hair-pulling-type actions at this point should come naturally...

Or, at least, that's how it's been described to me, hypothetically of course.

JoC · 17th-August-2005, 07:11 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

*the answer*

Oooooooh that's what you mean! I get you now. Thought at first it was some sort of hand-to-forehead move (hence the confusion, and some amusing images in mind...).

**El Salsero Gringo** · 17th-August-2005, 07:24 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by DavidJames

OK, I know it sounds weird, but it's really quite effective.

1. Start looking into partners eyes
2. Move closer
3. Hand on back of her head / neck
4. Look more intensely
5. Do a DavidSeducer move, forehead-to-forehead.

Hair-pulling-type actions at this point should come naturally...

Or, at least, that's how it's been described to me, hypothetically of course.

So with whom (apart from ZW, of course) do you do this with?

16th-August-2005, 02:34 PM	#1 (permalink)
David Bailey Formerly known as DavidJames Join Date: Mar 2005 Location: Norf Lundin Posts: 14,313 Status: Yes Blog Entries: 1 Rep Power: 8 Rep.: 3847	Neck holds etc. OK, maybe I'm the only person who does these, but it seems unlikely. These are when I (as the lead) put my hand on the back of the lady's neck, ether in preparation for a move, or frankly because it looks and feels good, or is, ahem, preparation for hair-pulling or forehead-touching types of move. So, anybody else use these, or is it just me? __________________ Jivetango Godfather Inventor of the Masterclass Baboon-worrier extraordinaire

16th-August-2005, 03:32 PM	#3 (permalink)
Andreas Registered User Join Date: Jul 2004 Location: London Posts: 1,225 Status: No Status Rep Power: 3 Rep.: 500	Re: Neck holds etc. I hold the ladies by the neck when either doing one of the dozens of Neck drop variations or for e.g. the Bow. Hair pulling is nothing I have used so far, though, why do you put your hand at her neck? Can't you just grab the hair and pull violently?

16th-August-2005, 04:01 PM	#8 (permalink)
Mary Registered User Join Date: May 2003 Location: West London Posts: 1,555 Status: No Status Rep Power: 3 Rep.: 533	Re: Neck holds etc. I've never had my hair pulled (well, not when dancing) But I guess it's not that easy when your hair is already tied back. M

16th-August-2005, 08:04 PM	#15 (permalink)
JoC Registered User Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 870 Status: No Status Rep Power: 2 Rep.: 208	Re: Neck holds etc. You started without me!!! It's all too much, cold shower required right away before I've even read the posts properly about stroking of necks, pulling of hair, UCP neck touching.....faint As well as the little neck massage I received 'recently', I also experienced that move where the man sort of moves his hand round your neck (or is it head? ) with the aim, I think, of making you sort of move your head round in dramatic, and perhaps passionate fashion, does anyone know what I'm on about? If anyone out there happens to be the gentleman who lead this 'recently' also, it was my first time, and you probably found my neck a little tense (and I didn't do a very good job of being either dramatic or passionate)! Therefore I require more massage please.

16th-August-2005, 09:07 PM	#17 (permalink)
Alykat Registered User Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 21 Status: No Status Rep Power: 2 Rep.: 12	Re: Neck holds etc. Spice n' Easy does a interesting neck hold variation...

Recent Posts / New Posts - Remove advertisements, become a Silver Member!
Ceroc Scotland Forum Advertisement	Sponsored links

Thread Tools
Show Printable Version Email this Page
Display Modes
Linear Mode Switch to Hybrid Mode Switch to Threaded Mode