View Poll Results: Women - have you ever paid for a fictitious male to get a weekender place?

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    How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    It seemed to me that at Storm that there were significantly more women than men, despite the balancing of the sexes. It occurs to me that one possible explanation could be that some women who missed the boat for female only bookings paid for themselves and a fictitious male. Has anyone done that?

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Quote Originally Posted by Spin dryer View Post
    It seemed to me that at Storm that there were significantly more women than men, despite the balancing of the sexes. It occurs to me that one possible explanation could be that some women who missed the boat for female only bookings paid for themselves and a fictitious male. Has anyone done that?
    For Ceroc events it would be pretty easy for them to know whether this has happened or not and how often as each member of any booked party is supposed to turn up in person to have their male/female wristband fitted. So the organisers would surely know exactly how many, if any, women turned up without a man to collect the male wristband for their booking.

    On an aside, it certainly seemed to be quieter this year, yet I believe the event was sold out. Does anyone know if numbers were reduced, or did some people book a cheap ticket and just turn up for the Saturday evening?

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Seemed to be more leaders in the handful of classes I went to. I'm not sure whether to blame the teachers for excess leader-focus, or the followers for not caring about becoming better dancers.

    My expectation is that the event didn't "sell out", but rather that Ceroc stopped selling tickets a little before the final date for organisational reasons.
    Also, note that Ceroc don't promise perfect 50/50 gender balance.

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    I can assure you no women paid for me at Storm

    I danced with some on Monday, but that was free

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Could we have the option "I've been a ghostly male at an event" please .

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Quote Originally Posted by Spin dryer View Post
    It seemed to me that at Storm that there were significantly more women than men, despite the balancing of the sexes. It occurs to me that one possible explanation could be that some women who missed the boat for female only bookings paid for themselves and a fictitious male. Has anyone done that?
    Id say 5% more women

    Try Franco camber May 2004 or Nov 2004 for significantly more
    In fact by 2/3am its back to hunt the lady

    Anyway its fairly easy to abuse the system

    All you need to do is know a name of a person going and just say your with them (assuming there not on there own) and turn up and stay elsewhere

    Also lots of women could book for a man and women (£58 ?) and just go on there own or share with others of just walk on site

    All fairly easy , there is no need to need to know names of others booking

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    If anyone is considering this for any aberdeen events, I'm perfectly willing to take up ghost's place (He get's about a bit dosn't he )

    gig·o·lo - Show Spelled Pronunciation[jig-uh-loh, zhig-] Pronunciation Key - Show IPA Pronunciation
    –noun, plural -los.
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    2. a male professional dancing partner or escort.

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Could we also have the option: "I hadn't thought of booking a ghost male, but thanks for the idea?"


    Cue lots of bookings with "Casper" as one of the dancers ...

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Don't blame the women!
    I know men who book accomodation for two men, except one has a fictitious name, and only one turns up.
    This is because it is cheaper to pay for a shared room with a male ghost than it is to book single accomodation.
    Until cheap single accomodation is offered, the gender balance will be ****-eyed.

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Quote Originally Posted by Astro View Post
    Don't blame the women!
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    Until cheap single accomodation is offered, the gender balance will be ****-eyed.
    **** - eyed - there is a joke there somewhere.......must resist....must resist.

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    I had an offer on the saturday night of being paid. Does that count?.

    Had to turn it down of course, being a man of the cloth for the evening.





    Gent.

    Ps having a girlfriend was the first reason for turning her down, being a cardinal was just a bonus.

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Quote Originally Posted by Astro View Post
    Don't blame the women!
    I know men who book accomodation for two men, except one has a fictitious name, and only one turns up.
    I thought there were rules against that?

    Mind you, I'm not sure how they could be enforced...

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Quote Originally Posted by Astro View Post
    Don't blame the women!
    I know men who book accomodation for two men, except one has a fictitious name, and only one turns up.
    This is because it is cheaper to pay for a shared room with a male ghost than it is to book single accomodation.
    Until cheap single accomodation is offered, the gender balance will be ****-eyed.
    NO blame ceroc for doing it !!

    why should my friend pay £149 for a single room when he can pay £118 for say a two male or male /female room and just not have the other person there. I 'pretend' he has a friend

    For god sake the fact he is a sad loner should be punishment enough rather then charging him extra to have his/her room

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Agree that an organisation charging "singles" more than buying two tickets is shooting itself in the foot when trying to gender balance.

    I think there were a few more women than men at Storm but didn't find it a major problem [shrug] - I got asked plenty as well as getting out there and doing the asking, it felt "balanced" in terms of effort

    Lynn makes a good point - if people can get a single ticket for £29 then that's darn good value for a couple of workshops and a nearly-all-night freestyle on Saturday only and I wouldn't be surprised if a fair few people did this at Storm - IMO it was noticeably busier on Saturday than on Friday and Sunday. Although this could be the people who arrive late Fri/Sat am or leave early Sun am. BUt then they would be more likely to stay for the whole time if the tickets were more expensive. TBH, for £29 I would rather arrive Sat am and drive home Sun am and get than share with a stranger, and am strongly considering this for Storm next year and other Ceroc weekenders I may want to go to, but don't have enough leave for the Fri/Mon.

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    Quote Originally Posted by stewart38 View Post

    For god sake the fact he is a sad loner should be punishment enough rather then charging him extra to have his/her room
    Or.....he may be hoping to lure someone back

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    Re: How many weekender women pay for a ghost male?

    why should my friend pay £149 for a single room when he can pay £118 for say a two male or male /female room and just not have the other person there. I 'pretend' he has a friend
    I think that actually if you book a ghost person you are effectively paying more for the same standard than you would as a singleton. If I book as a single woman sharing it's £69. If booking with a ghost man it's £138. Quite a hike. If I didn't want to share it would only be an extra £30, so that would be worth it if you were desperate I guess.

    Of course there are some men out there I would happily pay the extra £69 for..... I'm sure there's a dubious joke there somewhere.....

    In the meantime we girls have to be very quick off the mark when booking!! The last Jive Time one I went to was hugely over on women, 30 something women over in one class I went to and a scrum for dances on the freestyles. Needless to say I left the class. I won't be booking another weekender with them, but I would if I was a bloke!

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