Don't worry Franck, I realised you were only joking!
I have not taken offence and would be delighted to try any complex steps you care to introduce at the next Aberdeen party or indeed the ceilidh if you feel inclined to ask me to dance.
Re Heather's point about guys trying complicated steps before they have mastered the basics. It is difficult to dance well with someone when they are determined to do whichever step they learned in their last class before they have got the lead right. It is even more frustrating when they treat you as if you are a complete dope for not being able to follow them. Sometimes the bloke will not give up and will go over the same step again and again. This is ok if you know the person and are happy for them to practice on you
HOWEVER if you are at a social event it's much better if they stick to the moves they know.
You can still really have a great dance with only the beginners moves being used. Sometimes I think the newer blokes will not ask some of the girls to dance as they think we won't want to go over the "same old moves" again! Not true, just ask Miss Bossy.
Personally I like spins (although 64 in one dance might be a bit too many!) and also enjoy new moves - which if well led should be fun! However, nothing beats the look of pleasure on a beginner's face when they feel that they have got the hang of things. One of the nicest compliments I have been given was a thankyou from someone for encouraging them when they first started. Only returning the help given to me - what a great crowd of people us cerocers are!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Now I can't remember if this topic was in this thread or the other one so please accept my apologies if I'm behaving like Miss Muddle.
